So, as you all know, I have been exhibiting a constant sexual fluctuation for the past year.   I think I may be demisexual.  No physical attraction outside of an emotional attraction.  I mean, I have active sexual needs but it’s difficult for me to see someone and feel a sexual attraction to them without knowing them.  I mean, I have types, I am attracted to certain types of people.  But that’s almost completely rooted in personality.  I once thought I was asexual, a long time ago, but then I did develop a need to be sexual.  

However, a friend once said to me, “Claire I think you are just attracted to people who are attracted to you.”

I’m not quite sure.  I know that statement isn’t completely true, but I don’t feel a sexual attraction to people I haven’t met.  And, if I do, it’s because I have ruminated on what their personalities would be like.